SHOULD YOUR WEDDING COORDINATOR BE A HIRED PROFESSIONAL OR A FRIEND OR FAMILY MEMBER?

When someone proposes to you and you accept, or you are the one that popped the question and got a yes in return, then you hopefully have a bright future of love and laughter together looming ahead in the years that are coming. However, to make the transition from engaged couple to wed partners, you have to have the wedding itself. Someone has to be the wedding coordinator, and you then face the choice of letting a friend or family member handle the arrangements, or hiring a professional to manage things for you.

There are advantages to choosing someone who you know from family or friendship. They know you and what you like and don’t, and their affection for you will translate into them working hard to make your dream day a reality. It also means that you’ll save money from hiring a professional, as someone you know willing to be a wedding coordinator will probably do the job without expecting anything in return, except of course a day of bliss and happiness for all who attend.

However, choosing someone you know can have potential downsides. Your personal expectations of what they should do for you might be far apart from the level that they’re willing to commit as a volunteer. They also might get so bogged down in the work that they don’t get a chance to participate in the ceremony itself as a bridesmaid or groomsman, or even the time to relax and enjoy the dinner and after-party. It’s also not uncommon for the wedding coordinator to get so bogged down in the stress of everything that their relationships with guests and even the wedding couple get strained, which is an unfortunate consequence. If anything goes wrong with the ceremony, you or your pending spouse might blame the friend or relative you chose to coordinate the entire affair.

On the other hand, hiring a professional can skip all this. It brings in a neutral third party, which means everyone you know and love can be invited to attend the big day, and they are all free to participate and enjoy the proceedings. Choosing a professional is also a decision a couple can make together, meaning that preference is not given to one person’s friends or family over the others. In fact, it can be one of the first decisions a couple makes together as they get ready to spend the rest of their lives together, making shared choices. Your Aloha Wedding – Maui Wedding Planner has a great trackrecord and quite impressive reviews handling various situation that arises from planning and coordinating the big day.

Of course hiring a professional wedding coordinator does cost money so that it can add to the expense of a wedding. If a wedding is the first for both and is likely to be a big affair, then this can make a lot of sense. If on the other hand, either participant is older and getting remarried after a previous divorce or seeing a spouse pass away, then a wedding is likely to be a low-key affair or more casual, which might be the level of event that a personal acquaintance can handle with ease.

Ocean Center of Maui

There is a large collection of Hawaiian corals, reef fish, green turtles, and stingrays at the Maui Ocean center. There are many beautifully designed aquariums in this center and one of the highlights is the glass tunnel which passes through a ray and shark tank which allows the visitors to witness the beautiful life in the ocean. There are other displays like the life cycle of the humpback whales. These whales migrate to Hawaii from the months of December to March and there are also exhibits that show how the original settlers, the Polynesians utilized the sea of Hawaii. There are many original pieces of art displayed at the center and there is a store located on the ground floor that sells original artworks which are of exceptional quality.

Things to do in Maui

Maui is more than just beautiful waters and sandy beaches. There are a lot of things to do on this island which will make your trip memorable. From delicious food to shopping for art and crafts there are a lot of activities to indulge in.

Goats on surfboards

The town of Kula is not on the coast of Maui, so they have brought in the coast for the goats. There is a surfing goat dairy here where visitors can feed the goats, milk them or simply watch them while they saunter around in their surfboard decorated pens. Make sure to sample the MAcGoat nut cheese which has a memorable flavor.

Traveling the road to Hana

Kaanapali is the tourism hub of Maui and is on the east coast while Hana is 77 miles away on the west coast. There are around 600 switchbacks, 46 single-lane bridges, and innumerable waterfalls on this road. The complete drive takes a good three hours and some people become ill halfway there.

One of the view spots from Road to Hana

Natural dinner

You can hit an organic food stand and enjoy an outdoor dinner. Pizza can actually be sourced from the soil of Maui. There are also the neon green smoothies which taste as good as they look.

Classic Maui Dinner

There is the ocean to plate meal which is a specialty of Maui. You should definitely try the Sashimi Napoleon at the Hali’imaile General store. It is completely casual while it is also messy and not to mention very delicious. The dish is a blend of island fresh sashimi grade tuna with Asian Flavors. Read more at  mauimoonbow.com